In a world filled with endless to-do lists and goals, there is a profound concept that can transform the way we approach change: Start with Who… Not Do. Inspired by Dan Sullivan’s book, “Who… Not How,” this key concept emphasizes the importance of identity and self-discovery in the process of transformation.
The Matthew McConaughey Perspective
Let’s take a moment to reflect on Matthew McConaughey’s powerful Grammy’s speech, where he shared his personal journey. He reminded us of a simple truth: to make meaningful changes, we must first connect with our future self—the Who we aspire to become.
Matthew McConaughey: You see, when I was 15 years old, I had a hero. It was me in 10 years. So, every day, every week, every month, and year of my life, my hero’s always 10 years away. I’m never gonna be my hero. I’m not gonna attain that. I know I’m not! And that’s just fine with me because that keeps me with somebody to keep on chasing.
Matthew McConaughey’s story beautifully illustrates the power of embracing our future self, the person we aspire to become. It’s not about the checklist of actions or goals; it’s about connecting with the essence of who we want to be and allowing that vision to guide us.
Discovering Your Future Self
So, ask yourself, Who is your future self? Take a moment to envision the person you aspire to become. What qualities, values, and achievements define that version of you? It’s time to focus on the identity that aligns with your dreams and aspirations.
From To-Do to Who-List
Once you have a clear vision of your future self, shift your attention from the to-do list to the Who-list. Instead of asking “What should I do?” ask “Who do I need to be?” Embrace the mindset, habits, and beliefs of your future self, and let them guide your actions.
Change Begins with Identity
Remember, change begins with embracing your identity. When you align your being with your desired future, your actions naturally flow from that place. It’s about stepping into your future self and living it in the present moment.
Celebrate Your Journey
So, as you embark on your journey of change, remember Matthew McConaughey’s triumphant declaration: “Alright! Alright! Alright!” Celebrate the progress you make, knowing that you are becoming the person you aspire to be.
Conclusion
Embrace the power of starting with Who… Not Do. Connect with your future self and let that vision inspire your actions. With each step forward, you move closer to embodying your true potential.